Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Mop

A few week before retirement I had this thought in my mind - why do wife normally live longer than the husband . The wife as I observed survive many many years after the husband had passed away. I am not trying to deny the will of Allah in determining someone life, but there must be factors behind it that make wife live a healthier and longer life than the husband. In fact statistic show that woman's life expectancy is higher than the man's.
Husband who smoke a lot I think they deserved it when they 'close their eyes' earlier than their wife. The lifestyle they lead not only bad for their organs but also their entire family. I think the government has been right in asking the cigarette company to label their packet of cigarette with pictures of diseased organs and fetuses caused by years of smoking cigarettes.
I think wife is more active when at home especially during weekends doing housekeeping and so on. Have you heard wife complaining about their husband sitting idly, watching tv or reading newspapers while wife is busy doing housekeeping, cooking, looking after babies and so on and so forth? While wife is burning their calories by doing all these things, the husband is accumulating fats and plaque of cholesterol in their arteries. In this kind of situation, no wonder that wife will outlive their husband.
So I started my first day of retirement by mopping the floor, sweeping it, washing plates, so on and so forth. Mopped marble floor look kind of shiny and it really feel smooth on your soles when you walk on it barefooted. Not a grain of sand or dust to tickle you soles and consequently you had this enormous feeling of satisfaction.
'Tapak kaki tu tak rasa apa apa ka?' with a smile I asked my wife, at the same time trying to hide what I have done during her absent from home and hoping that she could feel the different.
'Alaa saya buat kerja ni dah bertahun tahun, TAK TANYA PUN'
Jawapan macam ni yang buat umur husband jadi pendek, betul tak?
Disappointed? or just accept it as an undeniable truth!
So what's your reaction if you get that kind of unappreciative answer?



BUAT LAH KERJA DENGAN IKHLAS, BARU ADA GANJARAN PAHALA. ORANG YG APPRECIATE KERJA ORANG LAIN DAPAT PAHALA JUGA.


*'sugar coated' in the above dialogue.

12 comments:

  1. Sometimes, I give hint to sayang as well after i've done some chores..

    What u say is true after all.. Dat's why men have shorter life span than women

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  2. well, ayah, didnt mean to take side but what mak said is true juga. ;) maybe u shld have started praising her long time ago or rather be in her shoes long time ago, then only u can get the same appreciation from her now. ;) women are sensitive lots u know. they love to be pampered and praised although sometimes they didnt ask for it or show it.

    still, its never too late to show your appreciation ayah. and women also know that action sometimes speaks louder than words, but from time to time we also love to hear both from men (action and words). ;)

    panjang la pulakkk.. hehe..

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  3. (ada sambungan pulakkkkk...)

    and ayah, altho mak tak tanya the same question u asked, but i'm sure she'd love to hear something good from u on everything she have done all these years. ;)

    but, we all know that mak sometimes can be somewhat reserved and hard to pleased. hehe..

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  4. To Fadhli
    "Aswad said, I asked Ai'sha "What did the prophet (p.b.u.h) do when in his house?'
    She said, 'he served his wife' meaning that he did work for his wife"
    Do not be downhearted,ikhlaskan hati and istiqamah dalam beramal soleh.

    To Kak Long,
    Gading mana yang tidak retak. Begitu juga ayah. I appreciate it very much for what mom has done to us. Pengorbanannya ,kebaikannya, keikhlasannya dan budinya tak kan terbalas oleh ayah sampai keakhir hayat.

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  5. tanggungjawab & keikhlasan itu penting.. tak kire suami atau isteri. tolong-menolong membawa berkat hubungan yang berkekalan sehingga ke akhir hayat.... teruskan menge'mop' yer.... -

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  6. To sayang
    Sincerity is in the heart. Tak dapat dinafikan kekadang kita nampak atau dapat agak juga samaada sesorang tu buat kerja ikhlas atau tidak. Yang penting untuk jaga hubungan hindarkan perasaan buruk sangka, suburkan perasaan baik sangka.

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  9. to Mr.fadhli,
    suburkan perasaan baik sangka... its from ayah's word...

    you do some chores...thanks alot!
    don't expect me to knw yr hint coz u always wat dono! with my hint! hint! what u give u'l get back :) nway..think positive- me always love my hubby.

    to ayah....
    words can't guarantee anything...its all depends... on your heart

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  10. Sholat, berdoa, sabar, bertimbang rasa dan sanggup berlebih kurang, itulah resipi untuk kebahgiaan dalam menghadapi hidup berpasangan.

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  11. And could it be that women lives longer coz they go on long holidays, leaving the men behind :_(

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  12. Or could it be the other way round, men live longer when women leave them behind..for some men life begins lepas pencen..

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